Friday, May 25, 2007
Santa Fe 1968 Gallery
---Tom Keens
Sunday, May 20, 2007
Did Buzz Gray start with class of '68?
Amlin is a good example of a 'missing person' who may or may not have started with our class but who it would be great to invite to a homecoming in 2008, whatever month!!
Saturday, May 19, 2007
RE: how to manage the list?
Thank you for your always sensible comments -- especially the news about your local college!
Regarding the name, I think David chose a broader name for the blog since many have expressed interest in including those in the classes immediately following ours (with whom we shared the campus), and I imagine Carl followed suit with the Yahoo group.
Leslie reported recently that Jill Rosenbloom is listed on E. 6th St. in the NYC telephone book.
There's no one listed in the 2001 Alumni Directory named Mike Shaffer or Shafer -- could you mean Michael Kalisher? That's the only Michael with a similar sounding name I have found in the class of '68. But I haven't found any contact info, sorry.
Rick
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From: Vida Kazemi
Sent: Saturday, May 19, 2007 22:42
For someone who knows nothing about computers, a yahoo list seems
simple enough. However, I am provincial and only interested in people
with whom I have had some contact. Wouldn't class of 68 be more
appropriate? After all, the class was different enough to have an
article written about its graduates at the time.
But thanks to all of you who are helping with our communication. May
be we can make the process of reunion "unnecessary".
By the way, our local college, Harvard, has its reunions in June and
doesn't seem to suffer for it.
Does anyone know what happened to Jill Rosenbloom or Mike Shaffer? (I
may have misspelled)
Yahoo Group for SF Alumni
I haven't presumed to add anyone to the list. If you think this is a good solution, join the group. Only members will get e-mails from it. I don't like to be overwhelmed by individual e-mails, so I select the daily digest from the groups I have joined. But if you live on-line and want to stay current, you can receive e-mails immediately as they're posted.
Cheers,
Carl
http://groups.yahoo.com/group/santafe-alumni/
Jon Fritz died; and how to manage the list?
From: Carl Bostek [sv.aphrodite@gmail.com]
Sent: Friday, May 18, 2007 23:28
The e-mail "list" has become too cumbersome since it's not a managed list -- not everybody gets every e-mail.
Hi Carl,
No, you're right. (And this is an example. You only wrote to me, and I started out responding to you, but decided to copy the group in hopes of getting wider input. Hope you don't mind.)
As it is now, each person who emails either decides for themselves who they want to send to or copy, or (if they hit Respond to All) simply sends to whoever was on the email they're responding too (perhaps without thinking about who is or isn't included). I sent out -- and then repeatedly updated -- my spreadsheet database (via which I'm trying to track down contact-info on more classmates), but I can't tell if anyone is actually using it, although a few people have commented on particular points in it, indicating that they had looked it over.
Do you have any suggestion how to manage our discussions better? So far, despite repeated suggestions from several of us, only 8 people have joined the blog. Incidentally, Elsa, I noticed that there's a button (I think it's a T, for text I suppose) by which you can change the size of the text you're posting!
A Yahoo group (or something similar) was also suggested -- which can act like a blog but also send out the emails as often as one wants (i.e., individually, as a daily summary, or not at all -- can our blog do that?) -- but one that I'm a member of (for my high school class) only has a small membership too (about 15), despite a much larger pool who were notified about it.
Yet I keep asking people on my spreadsheet (i.e., those who haven't already opted off of "routine group emails") if they want to opt off, and very few have said that they do.
Occasionally someone seldom heard from will email, either to the group, or to me privately, and I'm surprised to realize that they've been reading. Someone I least expected (I forget who now, someone who left before I arrived in Santa Fe) said "thanks for organizing this virtual reunion", although I don't believe they've emailed to the group!
So what to do?
Rick
Friday, May 18, 2007
And of course we were young.....
stressful. We were all young, most in our teens (I was 17 when I
arrived in Santa Fe), and most of us were away from home for the
first time in our lives. I think most of us had experiences similar
to Rick's as we adjusted to our new lives as college freshmen. And
we each found new friends with similar interests and formed support
networks.
Since the stature of limitations has run out on this, I can admit now
that a few of us would gather two or three times a week for an
evening cocktail and to reflect on life at the College. It was great
for bonding and very supportive.
Would meditation classes have helped me adjust better during that
first year or two? Maybe. I was somewhat interested in Eastern
thought and practices then; but, would I have allowed myself to
participate enough to really get much out of it? Probably not: I
had other interests and desires more typical of teenage boys. It was
some decades before meditation found a place in my life.
Certainly the 60s were a tumultuous time that affected us in ways
we're probably still discovering, but I think young people have
always found the transition from childhood to adulthood to be
tumultuous and difficult. In some ways we were better off than many
other teens in the 60s in that we were living in a very protected,
almost cloistered, environment. And frankly, I think we LIVED in an
encounter group! At least for the first two years......
Cheers,
Carl Bostek
SF '68
rationality, spirituality, and emotions
Sent: Wednesday, May 16, 2007 22:50
my feelings about the reunion are deeply entangled with my feelings about Ken... As I recall, my Freshman year at St. John's included a few suicide attempts. There was something about the era, the isolation and other vulnerabilities involved.
Hi Vida and All,
What a pleasure to have something other than the reunion to talk about -- like suicide and death. (Sorry, just a joke -- on myself -- for calling it a pleasure.)
My first year (in Annapolis) was very hard -- my second year was worse. (Things got better when I got to Santa Fe, thanks.)
With a brief break in Alaska after St. John's (teaching school in a remote Indian village, a disastrous experience for which I was totally unprepared), I soon ended up in Berkeley, exploring pop-psychology and spirituality (officially in Unitarian theological school, partly to avoid the draft). That led to a year of serious work with autistic children at Napa State Mental Hospital (kids who had been virtually abandoned until a psychologist had gotten funding to start a program for them), then to a fairly serious zen practice for awhile, and identification as a Buddhist. Back in Alaska after 1975 I continued exploring various kinds of therapy and self-help groups, even taking all the courses in the graduate counseling and community psychology program at UAA, and working for a couple of years with street alcoholics for the Salvation Army. (Intermittently I also had a series of progressively more responsible bookkeeping jobs that eventually led to my being -- or at least calling myself -- a self-taught accountant, while manager of an international economic development consulting firm in D.C., which led to my studying economics, which is where I'm at now.)
But the point I want to make is that, at least for me, St. John's was very one-sided. It was what I wanted, don't get me wrong -- even though I wasn't very good at dealing with it. But I often thought later that concurrent meditation practice would have helped me. Or maybe some kind of concurrent encounter group. Maurie reminded me recently that she and some others were in a Christian prayer group, and I can imagine that that was very helpful for them.
That's not to say that, if mediation and/or encounter had been available, I would have participated, or been able to benefit. Possibly I had to find those things in my own time, in my own way. And in that, I'm sure that St. John's helped.
I'm convinced that we're living in a very difficult transitional period -- possibly getting worse before it gets better. Surely it will get better?
An historian I like (J.H. Plumb) referred to "the end of an epoch", by which he meant that the basic social institutions which have supported us since the beginning of the neolithic age (the beginning of agriculture) about 10,000 years ago, and the beginning of civilization (cities) about 5,000 years ago -- the family, state, religion, school, and cities themselves -- are breaking down under the stress of the scientific/technological/industrial revolution. Lots of other writers also identify a similar structural break occurring now.
So we had that too. And of course we were young.
But what I'm wondering about is whether the St. John's program (and St. John's students) would benefit from some form of "elective" (dare I say the word?) meditation, or group-encounter, or both?
Welcome Debbie!
Once again, welcome back classmate!
Carl Bostek
SF '68
Wednesday, May 16, 2007
how about getting the Alumni Association to conduct the survey?
How about getting the Alumni Association to conduct the survey? ... You can put me on as a sponsor of the survey...
Thanks Allison, Carl, David, Don W., Ellin, Phil, and Tom for being willing to cosponsor the survey!
Are there any others who are willing to put your name "on the line"? (I believe you are, Gus, but I'll await your confirmation when you get a chance to read your email.) I’ll explain a bit more below why this might be important.
First I want to mention that Debbie Rodman Lawther – back in Kentucky after many years in the UK – has joined us (making 33 who have “checked in” about reunion-planning!) and is looking forward to a Homecoming/Class Reunion in Santa Fe in 2008. I’ve attached an updated spreadsheet including her email address and what is known about all others. I get so happy when a new person checks in, or even when I find contact info for someone for whom I didn’t have it before – please help!
I'm blind-copying those who would rather avoid lots of emails (so they'll be spared continuing discussion), but I’ll also post this message to the blog (http://sjcsfalums.blogspot.com/) so perhaps some of the discussion can shift there. (Whether there’s a way to attach a spreadsheet to the blog – and replace it periodically with updated versions – I don’t know. David, do you know? Or perhaps that wouldn’t be desirable, since it would make it public?)
Now about lobbying the Alumni Association board to conduct a survey of all Santa Fe alums about scheduling Homecoming:
I've been told that the College has problems with technology and with data -- so an online survey has two hurdles to jump right there. In addition, I'm told that the Alumni Relations Office -- which we might think of as the "secretariat" for the Alumni Association -- is under-funded and understaffed. And the association itself is a volunteer organization, paying expenses out of our annual dues. So there’s a natural tendency to avoid things having to do with technology, data, money, and time/effort. And – perhaps because of ignorance about the ease of online technology – there may be a fear that a survey of all Santa Fe alums would be quite expensive and time-consuming.
Then there’s the fact that they’ve already changed their Homecoming-scheduling policy – possibly for lots of complicated reasons beyond the announced one, that they believe it will make for more vibrant and rewarding Homecoming-experiences for us. When I tried to ask about those other possible reasons (since the reason given seemed a bit thin to me), I hit a stone wall of defensiveness (which is why we're now in the position of organizing a survey ourselves). But those other possible reasons are actually beside the point, I believe (unless the College simply doesn't want Homecomings in the summer regardless of how many -- or few -- can attend in the fall; in which case they should say so).
We’re pursuing a two-prong strategy:
We’re preparing as professional a survey as we can (more on that in a moment; you've seen the draft before).
And we’re lobbying the alumni board to get the association to sign-on as official sponsor of the survey, giving them some prior oversight of it’s contents before it goes out, and thus hopefully getting them more willing to act based on its results.
If they’re unwilling to cooperate, we might decide to send out the survey anyway, and/or to schedule and organize our own Reunion.
But I’m hopeful that we’ll get them to cooperate. In that respect, if there’s anyone you know on the association board (http://alumni.stjohnscollege.edu/?AlumniAssociation2), please discuss the matter with them, and let us know what you find out. We have a multi-pronged lobbying effort going on, the details of which I won’t go into now. But if you make sympathetic contact with someone on the board, we can get them in touch with others so they can strategize together.
Don Whitfield, who is in Chicago, has just given us the results of a survey done there (on local issues) by the Chicago chapter president, Rick Lightburn (SF’76), whom I plan to contact. He apparently does surveys professionally, and might be willing to look over our draft and suggest improvements.
I’d like as many people as possible to sign on as cosponsors of our survey – and I plan to ask the 34 people from later classes who responded to my little poll as well – because that will give added credibility, I believe, when we formally present what we propose to the Alumni Association. (If we're going to go ahead anyway with something quite professional and broadly-sponsored, and thus quite credible, wouldn't they be wise to sign on to get a little control?)
Beyond that, there are two (or perhaps three) big chores:
One is setting up the survey on www.SurveyMonkey.com or some other online site – and Carl has volunteered to work on that (and might welcome help?).
Then there is emailing an invitation to participate in the survey to all the Santa Fe alums, and I have volunteered (as long as I’m not in Alaska at the time -- so either before June 17, or after August 1) to go through the college’s online alumni site and extract all the email addresses of Santa Fe alums (I will welcome help, of course, as it will probably take a day or two of fulltime work).
And then – assuming that the online site tabulates the results automatically -- someone will have to interpret and report them. If the association signs on as official sponsor, I would think that someone on the board (Lightburn?) might want to do that (though we would certainly want access to the data too).
Anyway, it all seems doable to me. What do you think?
Regards,
Rick
Wednesday, May 9, 2007
Pink Adobe
Wednesday, May 9, 2007
Longtime Owners Sell Pink Adobe
By Kiera Hay
Journal Staff Writer
After 63 years, the Pink Adobe has passed from the hands of the Murphy-Hoback family.
Long a favorite for its tasty food and cozy ambiance, the Pink was purchased Tuesday by David and Christie Garrett, founders of Burlington, Vt.-based the Garrett Hotel Group, whose holdings include the Inn of the Five Graces, just down the street from the Pink Adobe.
Priscilla Hoback, whose mother Rosalea Murphy founded the restaurant, said the decision to sell was "agonizing."
"It was a very long, thought-out, carefully weighed decision. It's been in my family since 1944," she said.
Negotiations for the Old Santa Fe Trail property have been ongoing for about a year, she said. Ultimately, selling the restaurant to David Garrett was a logical choice, it seems.
The Garrett Hotel Group leased the buildings that house the Inn of the Five Graces five years ago. According to a press release issued Tuesday, "The Inn of the Five Graces lacked one major component to transform it into a world-class hotel like the others in the (Garrett) group— a great restaurant."
Since its inception in 1944, the Pink has grown to include the popular Dragon Room bar and Café Pink.
Murphy passed away in 2000, leaving ownership to Hoback and her son, Joseph Hoback, Priscilla Hoback said. Joseph's wife, Jennifer Wilson Hoback, who also ran the restaurant, will join the Garrett Hotel Group.
Whatever became of Frank Hoback?